• Romans 14:4

    This a parable I wrote based on the Bible verse that gives this post its title, while also being my first completed work outside of poetry. (I have some fable-like poetry but this is the first to be in this format). I really want to thank the God Of My Life for where I am today. Without him, I wouldn’t be able to write my own story, or uncover the real history, or discover my glory.

    Who are you to judge another one of the Lord’s servants?


    The Parable of the Father and His Sons:

    On a warm day, the Lord gathered all the children He could find and told them a tale of a father and his sons. Here is the story as the Lord told it: 

    There was a father who worked the fields. He had two sons, one older, the other younger. When the eldest son first began to walk the earth, he stepped as if flowers bloomed at his feet. The father was very proud of his first-born son.  

    When the younger son began to walk the earth, he stepped as if thorns had sprung up to pinch his feet. He would fall a lot, but the father was proud of his second-born son the same way as he was proud of his first-born son. 

    The eldest son grew to be jealous of his younger brother. He felt that he earned all the father’s praises since he walked with grace very early and his brother did not. 

    One blessed morning, the father was watching his younger son try to walk. The eldest son came to his father and said: 

    “Look, he falls to his knees yet again like a newborn calf. He deserves no praise. I walked with grace because my feet were strong, and my legs were mighty. I can stand beside you, my father, and command the fields when you are no longer able too.”    

    The father became terribly angry at these words and scolded his first-born son.  

    “Who are you to judge your brother when you both come from me? Who are you to tell me to see one when my eyes see all? Who are you to walk with such grace when your heart holds none? I praise your brother because no matter how many times he falls, each time the sun rises, he has risen to try again. Your judgement stems from the pit of your sorrowful soul. Your brother wants to walk like you, yet you diminish his works. When I am no longer able to command the fields, you and your brother will rule together as equals because I blessed you both the same.” 

    The eldest son grew saddened, he had realized the error of his judgement. The next time the sun rose into the sky, when the younger son would try again to walk gracefully, the eldest son stood beside his brother and gave him encouragement along the stride. Sure enough, the youngest son began walking as if petals were tickling his feet.  

    The father was joyed at what he saw. He loved his sons very much. They will rule the fields as one, because they are his sons.  

    When the Lord had finished his story, He told the children: 

    As the children grew to have children of their own, they would pass this story on through their generations.


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    Written on November 13th, 2024

    Let all that you do be done in love!

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  • Never expose your pain!

    (Originally Posted On Opulence in the Divine)

    Never expose your pain! 

    Isaiah 40:29 He gives power to the weak and strength to the powerless. (NLT) 

    Introduction 

    Hi babes, welcome back to my blog Opulence in the Divine! This post will be a lot shorter to what I normally write, shorter than the last post. I think of this one to introduce a series of posts I want to make about the healing process. I am going in this with no outline and spit balling from my soul. Without further ado, here is Never expose your pain!  

    Clarification on what I mean. 

    I do not want to come across as saying that you should bottle up your emotions. Fighting silent battles only increases feelings of isolation and stalls your healing! What I mean is that you should only show your pain to those who care and have your best interest at heart!  

    The uncertainty of exposing your pain to strangers and the danger of exposing your pain to enemies.

     You might think pain is something that should be avoided, but you must experience it to grow. Pain is a form of energy that comes from the heart, much like love. Also, like love, not everyone deserves to share your pain. It’s no question that the internet and social media has become an entire world on its own. Connecting people who you wouldn’t ever meet organically. This in itself is not wrong, as there have been many meaningful relationships that have started online, platonic and romantic alike. The issue is everyone is not your friend and/or lover. Strangers can be wolves and sheep’s clothing, not only that, exposing your vulnerability to people who could care less is just unnecessary.  

    Now, enemies. You might be thinking “Well that’s stupid to show people who hurt you your hurt”. It’s not stupid, it’s a mistake. Think about this. Let’s say someone ghosted you through text but you still follow each other on social media, your shocked and hurt that they did that, but they seem to be going on happily posting as if nothing happened. Now you start to post shady and cryptic messages in an effort to A) hope they see it and feel bad and B) still stay connected to this person. You want them to “share” your pain. Well, it’s not sharing if the pain is not reciprocated. Worse, you’re exposing your vulnerability and letting that person know that they have power over you. That was oddly specific. It’s an example I can give you from my own experience of being in pain.   

    So, for the love of God, please do not vent about, cry about, or lash out your pain to strangers or enemies on social media!  

    Surrounding yourself with loved ones and angels! 

    As said, don’t expose your pain to anybody, but don’t hide it either from those who truly love you. Sharing your pain is not about them taking on your struggle. Rather offering you a safe space where you can find comfort in knowing that you are not alone.  

    Wrap-up and final thoughts! 

    And scene! Okay this was a pretty informal one. I wrote this while at work, and I just wanted to say what was in my heart for real. Now I know I probably sound hypocritical when I say don’t share stuff with strangers then I go and share something personal with strangers. Well for one, I don’t consider you all strangers because the only people who read these are my close family and friends. Two, it’s my way of showing you that we all are human. I really cannot talk about issues and give advice if I haven’t experienced them firsthand. Well babes, I am tired. I hope you all stay blessed and beautiful. Take care, see you in the next one! 

    Love and Kisses Always! 

    XOXOXO 

    -Syd 

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